7 ways to make yourself attractive to the opposite gender

I have a ton of empathy for people who are alone but don't wish to be. And for people who are certain they're going to be alone forever or people who feel excluded from the possibility of love altogether. 

Here are 7 Tips and Facts that can easily and quickly make people get attracted to you.

1. Having confidence in yourself is probably the biggest attribute. A lot of people fail to realize what difference a little confidence can achieve. Even extreme arrogance is better than low confidence. Try not to give a slot about what people think of you. If you can do that then you're simply building a whole lot of confidence in yourself. Example; my wife used to dream of getting married to a tall man but the confidence I exhibited while wooing her made me look taller than my obvious short height. A man of confidence is physically and logically capable of attracting other attributes he doesn't posses and such confidence will make a woman see them in him, even if he does not posses them. Even if you hear whispers of he/she not liking a particular attribute that might coincidentally be associated with to you, don't let it dampen your moral, go for it, you can do it! 

2. To the men reading this - a great way to endear yourself to women is to fight against the societal structure that oppresses them and made you lonely in the first place. To the women, "your type, standard, reproach, criteria, personality...." are slightly minor when picking your man. It's just a social conditioning (but they're all essential in choosing a man that best suites you). 

3. People are attracted to love not hate. If you want people to love you then you should develop a habit of generally loving people because self bitterness is just a simple way of scaring people away from you. 

4. Be unique, interesting and dynamic. How can you stand out to gain attraction in the first place? What sets you apart from other potential dates out there is the impression that you would be great bet to be around more often. Work on a unique talent, skill, interest, hobby or personality that sets you aside from the rest. 

5. Be emotionally stable and positive - being emotionally and physically predictable and not readily moved. Also, to date someone who is always complaining about others or talking about past relationships. Bringing emotional luggage to a new relationship can be detrimental to the chance of it achieving it's full potentials. 

6. Having good personal hygiene and appearing neat at all times improves your chances of making yourself attractive to the opposite sex by 70% . As simple as that!

7. Be Unique and Stylish! Unique here means having a unique way of doing things and not always imitating others while Stylish could mean how you talk, walk, fashion, etc.. 

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